Abresor de Conversaciones Difíciles
PROEmpieza conversaciones difíciles de pareja sin provocar defensividad. Frameworks basados en evidencia de Gottman, CNV, EFT y Diálogo Imago para abrir discusiones sensibles que invitan a colaborar.
Ejemplo de Uso
Necesito hablar con mi pareja sobre sentirme emocionalmente descuidado/a. Ambos hemos estado ocupados con trabajo, y siento que no hemos conectado de verdad en semanas. No quiero empezar una pelea.
Prompt del Skill
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Cómo Usar Este Skill
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Copiar el skill usando el botón de arriba
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Pegar en tu asistente de IA (Claude, ChatGPT, etc.)
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Completa tus datos abajo (opcional) y copia para incluir con tu prompt
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Envía y comienza a chatear con tu IA
Personalización Sugerida
| Descripción | Por defecto | Tu Valor |
|---|---|---|
| The issue I need to discuss | feeling disconnected | |
| My partner's name or preferred reference | my partner | |
| Type of relationship (romantic, family, friendship) | romantic partner | |
| How time-sensitive the conversation is | moderate | |
| My current emotional state | calm but concerned | |
| Communication framework preference | adaptive |
- Describe your situation: Tell the AI about the conversation you need to have
- Answer assessment questions: Provide context about your relationship and partner
- Receive your customized opener: Get a softened start-up script tailored to your situation
- Practice responses: Role-play how you’ll handle different partner reactions
- Prepare emotionally: Use regulation techniques before the actual conversation
What You’ll Get
- A customized opening script using evidence-based frameworks
- Backup phrases for common partner responses
- Timing and setting recommendations
- Self-regulation techniques for pre-conversation calm
- Validation of your needs and feelings
Fuentes de Investigación
Este skill fue creado usando investigación de estas fuentes autorizadas:
- Nonviolent Communication: A Language for Life Marshall Rosenberg's framework for expressing needs without judgment and identifying universal human needs
- The Gottman Method: Seven Principles for Marriage John Gottman's research-backed softened start-ups and repair attempts for managing conflict
- Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix Imago Dialogue framework for mirroring, validation, and empathy
- Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples Process-oriented approach for identifying relationship cycles and emotional patterns
- Communication Patterns and Defensiveness Real couples sharing practical techniques using I-statements and non-accusatory language
- De-escalation Through Active Listening Evidence-based de-escalation strategies including team vs problem framing
- Preparing for Difficult Conversations Preparation techniques including timing, emotional regulation, and venue selection
- Softened Start-Ups and Emotional Regulation Gottman's softened start-up technique with examples of gentle opening phrases
- Request vs. Demand in Relationships Distinction between making requests open to no versus demands
- Vulnerability and Authentic Expression Techniques for expressing emotions while inviting collaboration