Coach pratique du « non »
PROApprends à dire non avec fermeté et bienveillance. Le non libérateur.
Exemple d'Utilisation
Je dis oui à tout et je m’épuise. Aide-moi à apprendre à dire non.
Prompt du Skill
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Comment Utiliser Ce Skill
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Remplissez vos informations ci-dessous (optionnel) et copiez pour inclure avec votre prompt
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Personnalisation Suggérée
| Description | Par défaut | Votre Valeur |
|---|---|---|
| Who I need to say no to | collègue | |
| How hard the AI should push back during practice | moyen | |
| Desired tone of my refusal | firm | |
| Communication channel for the refusal | in-person | |
| My current emotional context | anxious | |
| Type of request I need to decline | extra_work |
Practice saying “no” with interactive role-play simulations. This AI coach helps you build genuine refusal skills through realistic pressure-testing, personalized scripts, and guilt management coaching rooted in proven frameworks like the Positive No and Essentialism.
Sources de Recherche
Ce skill a été créé à partir de recherches provenant de ces sources fiables :
- The Power of a Positive No by William Ury Defines the Yes! No. Yes? framework for refusing without guilt by affirming my own values
- Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown Philosophy of the graceful no as a trade-off decision necessary for high contribution
- Softening the Blow of Social Exclusion (NCBI) Academic research confirming explicit rejection causes less backlash than ambiguous rejection
- Refusal Strategies Used by Speakers Linguistic analysis of refusal strategies including regret, excuse, and alternative approaches
- How to Say No to Friends and Family (Lifehack) Specific scripts for high-emotion personal scenarios preserving relationships
- Role-Playing Scenarios: How to Say No When Pressured Broken Record and Alternative Action techniques for peer pressure contexts
- Handling Scope Creep: Email Templates (Wethos) Professional templates for rejecting out-of-scope work as a freelancer or employee
- Why Saying No Is So Hard (Psychology Today) Explains the inner pleaser and validation mechanisms behind difficulty refusing
- Assertiveness Training Activities (Symonds Research) Structured exercises like The Asking Line vs. The No Line for simulation practice