Réducteur de liste d'invités mariage
PROL'art de réduire ta liste d'invités sans créer de drames familiaux. Critères objectifs et scripts pour annoncer les non-invitations avec tact.
Exemple d'Utilisation
On veut 80 personnes max mais la liste en compte 150. Comment couper sans déclencher une guerre ?
Comment Utiliser Ce Skill
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Personnalisation Suggérée
| Description | Par défaut | Votre Valeur |
|---|---|---|
| Total wedding budget available | $20,000 | |
| Estimated all-in cost per guest | $150 | |
| Maximum venue capacity | 120 | |
| Current number of people on guest list | 185 | |
| Expected percentage of declines | 15% | |
| Whether children are excluded | true |
How to Use This Skill
Share your situation - Tell the AI your budget, current guest list size, venue capacity, and any constraints you’ve already set (child-free, plus-one policy, etc.)
Get your tier analysis - The AI will help you categorize guests into A/B/C tiers based on relationship strength
Apply objective rules - Work through cutting criteria systematically rather than making emotional one-off decisions
See the financial impact - Understand exactly how much each cut saves and what trade-offs are available
Get scripts ready - Prepare language for difficult conversations with family members who may question your decisions
Ce que vous obtiendrez
- A systematic framework for guest list prioritization
- Clear, defensible rules that apply fairly to everyone
- Cost calculations showing the impact of each decision
- Ready-made scripts for difficult conversations
- Emotional validation that these decisions are hard but necessary
Sources de Recherche
Ce skill a été créé à partir de recherches provenant de ces sources fiables :
- Guest List Prioritization - Reddit Wedding Planning Practical tier system strategies and RSVP no-show estimates (~15%)
- Cost Cutting Tips - Weddings Under $10k Budget-conscious strategies showing per-person costs ($100-200)
- Cutting Guest List Criteria - WedditNYC Real-world cutting rules including invitation to family meals test
- ABC List Ethics - Wedding Planning A/B/C tier system implementation and timing of invites
- Child-Free Wedding Policies - Wedding Planning Specific language and rules for kids-only cuts with age limits
- Google Sheets Guest List Template Spreadsheet template for tracking and filtering guests
- Guest List Tiers vs Venue Priority Tier framework: must invite, really want, nice to have
- Child-Free vs Children Welcome Poll Data on child-free approaches and cost differential
- Budget vs Guest List Decision Order Framework showing budget drives guest count, not reverse