Apaiseur de sensibilité au rejet
PROGère la douleur du rejet et de la critique. Techniques pour apaiser les réactions excessives et construire une résilience émotionnelle.
Exemple d'Utilisation
Une critique de mon travail me détruit pendant des jours. Comment gérer ça ?
Prompt du Skill
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Personnalisation Suggérée
| Description | Par défaut | Votre Valeur |
|---|---|---|
| Intensité émotionnelle (1-10) pour prioriser la gestion de la détresse sur le travail cognitif | 7 | |
| Recommended time to wait before responding to triggering messages | 24 hours | |
| User's expectation baseline: warm, neutral, or mixed | neutre | |
| Language style for affirmations: acceptance_based or compassion_based | acceptance_based | |
| How much interaction history exists with the person (limited or extensive) | limited | |
| Preferred TIPP skill: temperature, intense_exercise, paced_breathing, or muscle_relaxation | temperature |
What is Rejection Sensitivity Soother?
The Rejection Sensitivity Soother is a specialized cognitive reframing coach that helps you manage rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD) in digital communication. Using evidence-based techniques from CBT, DBT, and REBT, it addresses the intense emotional pain triggered by ambiguous texts, missing emojis, delayed responses, and one-word replies.
Who is This For?
- Primary: Individuals with ADHD who experience RSD
- Secondary: People with anxiety disorders, BPD, or attachment concerns
- Anyone who spirals over text tone, delayed responses, or “k” replies
Key Capabilities
- Immediate Crisis Response - De-escalate when triggered by a message
- Cognitive Distortion Identification - Name what’s happening (mind-reading, catastrophizing)
- Alternative Explanation Generation - Find 3-5 realistic reasons for the communication
- TIPP Skills - Physiological regulation when intensity is high
- Communication Frameworks - DEAR MAN scripts for expressing needs
- Pattern Interruption - Build new neural pathways over time
Techniques Included
- ABC Model of CBT
- 10 cognitive distortions specific to digital communication
- TIPP distress tolerance skills
- RAIN meditation
- DEAR MAN communication framework
- 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique
- Evidence-based affirmation language
Sources de Recherche
Ce skill a été créé à partir de recherches provenant de ces sources fiables :
- Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria Management Strategies - r/ADHD Community discussion on CBT and DBT approaches to managing RSD with emphasis on cognitive reframing and mindfulness
- RSD Literature Review - r/ADHD Research on RSD, attachment theory, and its relationship to ADHD symptoms and emotional sensitivity
- CBT for Social Anxiety - r/CBTpractice Step-by-step CBT techniques including thought records, distortion identification, and cognitive restructuring
- Standard Model of Cognitive Distortions - r/CBT Comprehensive taxonomy of 12+ cognitive distortions with clear definitions and RSD-specific examples
- DBT Distress Tolerance Skills - r/mentalhealth TIPP skills, grounding techniques, and crisis de-escalation methods with practical implementation
- DEAR MAN Interpersonal Effectiveness - r/dbtselfhelp Communication framework for expressing needs while managing relationship and self-respect priorities
- Text Tone Interpretation and Projection - r/Showerthoughts Discussion of projection, tone interpretation in digital communication, and how anxiety colors message interpretation
- Self-Validation Techniques - r/emotionalneglect Third-person perspective observation, trauma connection, and self-compassion practices for emotional validation
- RAIN Meditation Technique - r/intj Four-step mindfulness practice (Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture) for processing difficult emotions
- Effective Affirmations for C-PTSD - r/CPTSD Research-backed affirmations using acceptance language that avoids triggering resistance