First-Date-Vibe-Check
PRONon-obvious Red-Flag-Screening-Fragen und Verhaltens-Beobachtungs-Framework zur Identifikation von Beziehungs-Kompatibilität, emotionaler Reife und potenziellen toxischen Mustern, bevor emotional investiert wird.
Anwendungsbeispiel
Ich habe morgen ein erstes Date und will subtil auf Red Flags und Kompatibilität screenen. Gib mir 10 nicht-offensichtliche Fragen und Verhaltensweisen auf die ich achten soll.
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Anpassungsvorschläge
| Beschreibung | Standard | Dein Wert |
|---|---|---|
| Controls question intensity: light, moderate, or intensive screening | moderate | |
| Scale 1-10 for how strictly to interpret behaviors as red flags | 7 | |
| What I'm screening for: casual, long_term_serious, or marriage_focused | long_term_serious | |
| Whether to incorporate attachment style assessment questions | true | |
| Priority: attraction_first, values_first, character_led, or chemistry_first | character_led |
Forschungsquellen
Dieser Skill wurde auf Basis von Forschung aus diesen maßgeblichen Quellen erstellt:
- What are some subtle red flags on the first date? Community-sourced comprehensive list of behavioral red flags including phone obsession, impatience, poor manners, lack of follow-up communication
- Best questions to ask / things to learn about someone Detailed guidance on screening questions including attachment style, love languages, financial habits, relationship history patterns
- What's a green flag you've noticed on a first date? Positive indicators including asking questions, natural conversation flow, phone non-usage, laughter, listening skills
- What are first date red flags from online dating? Specific deception patterns, physical intimacy pressure, excessive ex-talk, negative gender generalizations
- What questions do you like to ask your date early on? Framework for identifying values alignment, emotional labor sharing, empathy levels
- How do you gauge someone's emotional intelligence? Techniques for assessing emotional maturity through questions about feelings vs. thoughts
- Conversation starters for assessing kindness and character Professional framework for character assessment by observing storytelling patterns and blame attribution
- What's the difference between love-bombing and genuine interest? Psychological distinction between excessive early attention with inconsistency vs steady, reliable interest
- Evaluating Attachment Style While Dating Specific questions and behavioral indicators to assess secure, anxious, avoidant attachment patterns
- How to find someone who is financially responsible? Conversational approaches to financial compatibility screening without invasive questions