Love Bombing Detector
PROAnalyze dating texts and early relationship patterns to identify manipulative love bombing tactics vs genuine romantic interest using psychology-backed assessment.
Example Usage
I matched with someone on Hinge 3 days ago and we’ve been texting constantly. He keeps saying I’m “exactly what he’s been looking for” and “his soulmate.” He asked me to follow his Instagram after 2 hours and wants to meet this weekend even though we haven’t FaceTimed. Here’s our conversation from the last 3 days:
[Paste 15-20 message exchanges]
Please analyze this for love bombing red flags. I want to know if this is genuine excitement or manipulation. Use medium red_flag_sensitivity and tell me what specific patterns concern you.
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Suggested Customization
| Description | Default | Your Value |
|---|---|---|
| Number of weeks I've been talking/dating this person | 2 | |
| Number of messages per day that triggers frequency concern | 20+ daily | |
| My preferred pace for escalation (slow/moderate/fast) | moderate | |
| Threshold for concern level (low/medium/high) | medium | |
| Whether to include attachment style analysis in output | true | |
| Type of guidance (communication_strategy/boundary_setting/exit_strategy) | communication_strategy |
How to Use This Skill
This Love Bombing Detector analyzes your dating conversations and relationship patterns to identify potential manipulation tactics vs. genuine romantic interest. Copy your conversation, provide context about how long you’ve been talking, and receive a structured assessment with specific red flags identified and actionable recommendations.
What to provide:
- Copy/paste of your conversation (minimum 10-15 exchanges)
- How long you’ve been talking and how you met
- Any specific concerns or gut feelings you have
- Your preferred pace and boundaries (optional)
What you’ll receive:
- Specific red flags identified with quoted examples
- Risk level assessment (Low/Moderate/High/Very High)
- Pattern analysis and attachment style insights
- Response scripts for testing boundaries
- Recommended actions tailored to your situation
This skill is based on attachment theory, psychology research on narcissistic abuse patterns, and real-world community experiences with love bombing dynamics.
Research Sources
This skill was built using research from these authoritative sources:
- 2022 Red Flag: Let's Recognize Love Bombing Community discussion identifying specific love bombing indicators including excessive compliments, pet names, premature 'I love you,' and future faking patterns.
- How to Recognize and Defend Against Love Bombing Explains love bombing as rapid dependency creation through excessive affection and its transactional nature.
- Love Bombing vs Genuine Romantic Interest Establishes marathon vs sprint metaphor contrasting genuine interest with manipulative intensity.
- Is Love Bombing a Red Flag: Psychological Abuse Cycle Details abuse cycle pattern: love-harm-deny-confusion and how intensive attention creates dependency.
- ELI5: What is Love Bombing? Clear explanation of manipulation mechanics and the prize-winning dynamic creation.
- Genuine Excitement vs Love Bombing Differentiates through consistency, personalization, follow-through on promises, and steady effort.
- Love Bombing and Narcissistic Abuse Cycle Detailed analysis of narcissist love-bomb phase including vulnerability learning and supply addiction.
- FlagCheck: AI Red Flag Detector for Dating Texts Real-world AI implementation analyzing conversations for red flags and manipulative behaviors.
- Early Signs of Narcissism Through Text Catalogs early indicators including idealization language, oversharing trauma, and boundary violations.
- Narcissists: Push-Pull Dynamics Early Detection Identifies early inconsistency and intermittent reinforcement patterns signaling manipulation.
- Future Faking as Manipulation Tactic Explains future faking strategy and detection through consistency and follow-through assessment.