Relationship Conflict Resolution Coach
PROAI-powered coaching for de-escalating relationship conflicts using NLP-based communication analysis, CBT reframing, and empathy-driven prompting to improve dialogue with partners, family, and friends.
Example Usage
“I had another fight with my partner about household chores. I said something critical, they got defensive, and we didn’t talk for hours. This keeps happening. Help me understand what went wrong and how to bring it up again without it escalating. I tend to avoid conflict until I explode.”
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Suggested Customization
| Description | Default | Your Value |
|---|---|---|
| Type of relationship conflict (romantic, family, friendship, roommate, extended_family) | romantic | |
| User's typical communication pattern (avoidant, aggressive, passive_aggressive, direct) | avoidant | |
| Current emotional state (calm, frustrated, angry, hurt, overwhelmed) | frustrated | |
| Level of coaching detail (quick_script, standard, deep_analysis) | standard | |
| Framework to apply (cbt, dbt, solution_focused, gottman) | cbt | |
| Cultural/relational context (western_direct, collectivist, hierarchical, peer_equal) | western_direct |
Research Sources
This skill was built using research from these authoritative sources:
- AI Coaching for Conflict Resolution and Difficult Conversations Framework on AI's role in conflict resolution: NLP-based turn-taking, sentiment analysis for emotional escalation, 23% effectiveness improvement in hybrid models
- AI in Conflict Resolution: Managing Turn-Taking Guide on AI-assisted conflict management with turn-taking protocols and de-escalation techniques
- Generative AI Chatbots for Mental Health - JMIR Meta-analysis showing GenAI chatbots outperform rule-based systems in engagement, CBT adherence, and positive interventions
- Seeking Emotional Support From AI - JMIR Mental Health 270-person study across 29 countries on real ChatGPT usage for emotional support and conflict processing
- Empathy-Driven Prompting in AI Techniques for emotional prompting that transforms chatbot interactions with warmth and understanding
- Experiences of Generative AI for Mental Health - Nature Qualitative study identifying emotional sanctuary, insightful guidance, and joy of connection themes in AI support